Monday, June 30, 2008

Quit complaining!!!!

I know I'm not very quick "blog poster". I just really struggle with finding the time to sit and write it out, especially with about 5 loads of dirty clothes in my laundry room, but something has really been on my mind all week.







Cute kids eh? Tanner and Ella "enjoying" our 110 degree heat.



I was channel surfing a while ago and stopped on Dr. Phil. I usually don't watch his show but something caught my attention. It was about the only known blind and deaf triplets. The mom was not on fertility drugs either. It was just a fluke. But, like a lot of multiple births' they were born too early and had problems. From what I saw it was like Helen Keller BEFORE Ann Sullivan X's three. I couldn't imagine the struggles this woman has every day.






This story really made me think about how lucky I am. I have two beautiful, healthy daughters. And two of the best sons anyone could ask for. Who cares if I can't go to the bathroom by myself. I feel silly even thinking THAT'S a hardship. I mean I have NOTHING to complain about compared to this woman's life. The worse part of my day is if I can get the girls down for their nap at the same time. Which believe me, is rare. They have a sense to know "finally, I can have ALL Mom's attention." Which, I have to remind myself, IS a blessing. How blessed I am to spend time with each one on one. There are bigger problems in the world.





My oldest son just graduated from high school. Weston is going to college this fall. He's healthy, he has a good heart, and is smart. Who cares if he uses those smarts to be a "smart-alack". We can laugh together especially at those times I'm in "ultra annoying" mode. How blessed I am to have a wonderful son.

I really wanted to write about these deaf blind girls to remind to put things in perspective. I can go on and on about my kids and how great they are, and how lucky I am to have them, even to the point of making you vomit all over your keypad...................Oh, and don't even get me going on how I was the Power Ball winner in the HUSBAND LOTTO.

I find myself dwelling at my pity party about how I can't find time to keep my house picked up. Or I can't work on tanning my albino legs because my daughter wants to sit and color in her coloring book with me sitting right there with her. What if she didn't know or EVEN CARE if I were there. What an ungrateful little brat I felt like after watching 10 min of this woman's life.

When I actually "count my blessings, and name them one by one" it brings tears to my eyes. Especially on a day like today, when I had to pick up and leave Walmart with a cart full of stuff because my 20 month year old wouldn't stop throwing a fit because her ice melted in her sippy cup. Did I mention it's 114 degrees here today? Which brings me to another idea for a blog post. Any advice on temper tantrums.... They're starting early for this one.

Oh, wait.... I must remember it's a blessing that she has the mental capacity to throw them in the first place... See, why I had to write about counting my blessings.











5 comments:

Liz Prisbrey said...

Hmmm, did a mom post this blog?? Yes, we all need a little perspective sometimes, BUT our challenges are still REAL. AND, extremely frustrating! Any mom can second that. It's good to know that I am not the only one feeling all of those emotions at any given moment. Speaking of perspective, check out www.adailyscoop.blogspot.com ... This will leave you holding your girls every chance you get.

julie said...

That was a fantastic post. I am really proud of you. You write like a writer!!!!I love the pictures of the girls. Too funny seeing Ella in those sun glasses. I have to agree with you that you do have 4 wonderful children, a wonderful husband, and I might add hes a wonderful brother... and your a wonderful SIL. We all have blessings we all need to be thankful for. Ella will be just fine tomorrow evening. Her and Adi can have their little tantrums together. :)

smithfam said...

Is that Ken in the front of the stroller???? Ella looks Just like him, but with pink glasses. Too funny!

You forgot to add how grateful you are to have such a fabulouse SIL---ME! :) Where are your priorities?

Kellie and Stephen said...

You do not look old enough to have a son going to college! Your little girls are super cute, and they do have a very strong resemblance to Ken although I see some Jenny in there too.

Supercool Hotmama said...

Sometimes the reality of our blessings can be a little overwhelming. Thank goodness we are so blessed - even when they drive us crazy.